Failures Don’t Define Us
Have you ever failed something? Not just a little failure, but a big failure that defined the course of your life? I’ve shared in other posts the failure that changed my perspective was when I failed my nursing boards. But what if you have a constant failure in your life one you have to deal with every day?
I’ve shared before about our daughter Brooklyn who has dyslexia which there is no cure. She will have dyslexia for the rest of her life. Every day she’s reminded of her inability to interpret text when she’s asked to read something. Her deficits and inadequacies are amplified every time she’s asked to spell a word. I can’t imagine what she goes through on a daily basis fighting the battle within thinking she’s not smart and not capable to do what others can do.
As a mother, I have a choice in how to treat my daughter and my daughter has a choice in how she will respond. Will, I treat her that she has a disability and allow her to use it as a crutch to make excuses for why she can’t? Or will I show her I believe in her and give her the skills she needs so she can run?
Many of us believe the lie, our failures define us and hold us back from our future.
Praise God we serve a God who is bigger and is able.
We are more than our past failures. We are more than our weakest link. God uses our weakest traits as a catalyst to propel us towards his greatest plans. Our weaknesses are not an excuse to go through life walking with a limp, but an opportunity to learn how to overcome and grow stronger for what God has in store for us.
Our failures don’t define us, God’s truth does.
I am always so amazed how God uses the unlikely to carry out His almighty plan. He doesn’t use the strongest, the wisest or even the most powerful to carry out His plans. Instead, he used a little shepherd boy named David, a young teenager named Jeremiah and a man with a stuttering problem named Moses.
When you are chosen, you can’t run or hide from God’s choice. God sees so much more in us than we will ever see in ourselves. When God chose Moses to go before Pharaoh, Moses wasn’t so sure.
Exodus 4:10 “And Moses said to the Lord, “Pardon your servant, Lord. I have never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken to your servant. I am slow of speech and tongue.”
I love God’s response to Moses.
Exodus 4:11-13 “The Lord said to him, “Who gave human beings their mouths? Who makes them deaf or mute? Who gives them sight or makes them blind? Is it not I, the Lord? Now go, I will help you speak and will teach you what to say.”
God didn’t say to Moses, ‘you know you’re right, my plan is never going to work because you don’t have the skills to be a great leader.’ Instead, God reminds Moses, who made you and gave you the ability to hear and see?
We may feel deficient. Not adequate. Not prepared. But God will never ask us to go somewhere without equipping us with the skills we need to accomplish what he is asking of us. The tasks God asks may be hard and difficult. They may even seem impossible, but God is bigger.Jesus reminds us inLuke 18:27, 'What is impossible with man is possible with God.'Click To Tweet
Paul reminds us in Ephesians 3:20, “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen. “
When Moses went before Pharaoh, he had already provided a way and means to communicate to Pharaoh, his brother Aaron. He provided the words and the details of what to do. Moses was merely God’s vessel and needed his obedience. Moses had no idea how everything was going to turn out, but God did.
I can’t always be there advocating for my daughter in what she needs to succeed, but with tutors, teachers and a strong support system, we are going to give her the skills so she can fly. I never want her dyslexia to be a stumbling block and reason why she can’t but the reason why she overcomes and succeeds.
Just because my daughter has dyslexia doesn’t mean she’s deficient.
Just because Moses had a stuttering problem didn’t mean he was incapable.
2 Corinthians 3:4-5, 'Such confidence we have through Christ before God. Not that we are competent in ourselves, but our competence comes from God.' Click To Tweet
Where we fall short, God makes up for our deficiencies and accomplishes His greatest plans through us.
We have two choices. Allow the limitations of our deficits to confine us and stay in cycles of brokenness or allow God to use our deficits to refine us and move forward in His plans for us.
Do you believe God is bigger?
How will you allow your deficits to impact you? To confine or refine?
Has God helped you do the impossible?
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