The other day I was scrolling through my Instagram feed after a very divided nation was arguing each of their sides to the issue of a recent Supreme Court ruling. I was taken back by the comments and reactions of each side. This isn’t the first time our nation has been divided on how to handle the care of human life nor will it be the last. The question we can ask ourselves in these times of heated debate is, how will the outcome be most beneficial, in our reactions or our response?
In our reactions we will always stay in the argument, the debate will never end because reactions are fueled with our emotions. The enemy would like nothing more than for us to stay in our reactions, because in our reactions is how the enemy distracts us and keeps us in the argument and chaos.
According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the definition of react is: “to exert a reciprocal or counteracting force or influence—often used with on or upon. 2: to change in response to a stimulus. 3: to act in opposition to a force or influence—usually used with against 4: to move or tend in a reverse direction.”
To react is to respond without thinking, is impulsive, immediate, and chases our emotions. Our reactions are usually driven by our fears, attached to unmet expectations, and are short-sighted not able to rationally see the entire perspective of our situation. As you can see in the definition, to react is usually a negative response in opposition of something.
Definition of respond: “to say something in return : make an answer respond to criticism 2a: to react in response to a call for help b: to show favorable reaction, respond to surgery. 3: to be answerable”
In the Bible, when Jesus was presented with a situation, he responded not reacted. One of the greatest examples of this, is the woman’s life he spared from stoning in John 8. When the Pharisees brought an adulterous woman to Jesus, they wanted Him to react to her sin and make an example of her to others. But Jesus doesn’t react, He responds to what the woman needs, His grace. According to the Jewish Law of Consequence this woman deserved to be stoned publicly to shame her for what she had done. But Jesus shows a new way, one that forgives and restores, that doesn’t codon or condemn.
Jesus then stood up and said, “‘Where are they?’ ‘Has no one condemned you?” She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; and from now on, ‘sin no more.'” (John 8:10-11).
Jesus didn’t react to the woman’s sin, he responded to her deepest need. The Pharisees wanted Jesus to react to what this woman deserved. But this is where the enemy will entrap us to react, to cast stones at someone’s behavior, to keep us in a cycle to constantly throw stones at one another. Jesus breaks the cycle and doesn’t respond to the crazy, but sets a new path to enter into his healing grace.
The response is intentional, delayed, comes from a place of love and respect, rational, comes from self-control, and thinks about the long-term picture. From the definition, to respond is to show a favorable reaction. There will always be something we don’t agree with. An argument. A debate. We have to ask ourselves what is the outcome we desire? My desire is that everyone I know, knows the love of Jesus and one day I will see them in heaven. Life is too short and precious to spend it arguing especially with loved ones. Is my opinion and battle to be right the desire I want? Not Really. We all want to be seen and heard. We get lost in the fight to be right and miss out on God’s victory, a battle he’s already fought and won.
If there is one thing I hear Jesus telling me, is my role is to be the vessel, the messenger. My job is to bring the loaves of bread and fish, Jesus will feed the 5,000. My role is to show people the love of Jesus, not to cast stones. My purpose is to step out of the boat, not to sit there and wait until the storm is over to respond to what is happening in the world. I may get wet or even sink but Jesus will be there to hold my hand. I don’t have to like or agree with what everyone is doing, but I am called to love others no matter who they are or what they have done. We are all sinners and don’t deserve what Jesus has done for us, his gift is for everyone, we don’t have to earn it. The love of Jesus is for everyone.
Next time you see a post you don’t like or agree with, Ask God:
How should I respond?
What is the outcome you desire?
Will people see Jesus in my reaction or my response?
We may not have control over our situations, but we can control how we react or respond to our situations. Jesus came so we could have life and have it to the full. We miss out on His abundance when we allow our reactions to have the best of us. If we don’t control our reactions, our reactions will control us. How can you respond today to a situation you don’t like? We are able to have peace and serenity restored when our response is driven by God’s love.
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Whenever I do healing groups the first thing we establish are boundaries up front that will help make the group a safe place to share. Everyone agrees to what makes a group a safe place. Some of the boundaries include, anonymity, don’t interrupt, listen, no judging, be aware of biases, don’t give advice, and most important confidentiality. Establishing these boundaries up front, establishes a safe place for people to feel comfortable to process and heal.
God has provided safe places to heal for us as well. In the Bible, Jesus performed many healing miracles. One of them includes the woman who bled for 12 years. She had spent all her money on doctors to be cured, but instead grew worse. But then she heard about Jesus.
This woman’s faith shows us, all she had to do was be near Jesus and she would be healed. She just had to step into His presence. The same is for us as well. When we step into these places, there is nothing magical about the locations, it’s about our willingness to step into the presence of God.
5 Safe Places to Heal in the Bible That Will Set You Free-
1. The Mountain- Isaiah 54:10, “Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,” says the LORD, who has compassion on you.” Isaiah 49:11, “And I will make all my mountains a road, and my highways shall be raised up.”
There are so many mountain references in the Bible, it was hard to pick just one. The one thing I love about what a mountain represents is, God is the creator of mountains.
Mountains represent God’s greatness, His power and strength, a place we can go and be in solitude with Him. Just like the woman’s faith (who bled for 12 years) healed her, if we have faith the size of a mustard seed God can move the mountains in our lives (Matt. 17:20). Mountains are a place where we can see the results of the climb once we get to the top, we can see so much clearly!
In the Bible some of the most sacred events occurred on the mountain, when Abraham was to sacrifice his son Isaac, when Moses received the 10 commandments, the burning bush, healing, etc. Don’t underestimate God’s ability, how He will use the mountains in your life. We can always find safe places to heal no matter where we are on the mountain.
2. The Dessert- Matthew 4:10-11, “Then Jesus said to him, “Begone, Satan! Foritiswritten,“ ‘YoushallworshiptheLordyourGod andhimonlyshallyouserve.’ 11 Then the devil left him, and behold, angels came and were ministering to him.”
There isn’t a place we go to that Jesus himself hasn’t already been to. We can find safe places to heal in the most unlikely places, even in the arid, harsh desert. Jesus went to the wilderness of the desert to fast and pray for 40 days and nights. In the desert, Jesus was tempted by the devil, who tried to deceive Him. But Jesus responds with ‘Be gone!’ Jesus tells Satan, ‘He worships God only.’ It seems unlikely to be able to heal in such harsh environments, but Jesus shows us in the wilderness, we can wrestle with our demons and allow for God’s strength to stand up against our enemies. This is where we can truly discover who we are in Christ and allow for our foundations to be rooted in Him and not the lies of the enemy.
3. The Well- John 4:10, “Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”
In John 4, we read about the woman at the well, Jesus asks for a drink a water from the well from her. According to customs, Jesus wasn’t supposed to associate with this woman, because she was Samaritan and a woman. She even came to the well at a time no one would be there so she could go unnoticed. But Jesus sees this woman in a way no one ever had.
This woman was ashamed of her choices and past, but Jesus saw the woman for who she was, loved and worthy. He spoke to her needs of needing a Savior and did not condemn her. Even though this woman did not intentionally step into His presence, Jesus was there waiting for her, extending an invitation of mercy and grace which spoke volumes to her. Because of her testimony of how Jesus treated her, many more Samaritans were saved.
4. The Valley-Psalm 23: 4-5, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley,[a] I will fear no evil,for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.”
When we go through the valleys in our life, God provides a safe place to heal at a table He has prepared for us in the presence of our enemies. It’s not a matter if we go through valleys. It says, we will walk through the valleys. No matter what we are going through, there’s not a place God hasn’t already been. He has gone before us and made a way, a place for us to heal in the valley. We don’t have to wait until we are out of our valleys to heal, we can heal when we are in the valley, at His table He has prepared for us.
5. The Cross- John 3:16, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”
The cross is a place God used to change everything. The cross is an altar where we can lay down our own measures of control, burdens, struggles, and performance and enter into God’s grace, truth, and love. The cross is where we receive our gift of salvation and eternal life, that bridges the gap between death and life, that cures all sickness and disease, that heals the brokenhearted. The cross is both an opportunity to step into God’s presence but also receive what He has done for us. We can find a safe place to heal at the cross where we can surrender it all. We don’t have to fear being criticized, judged, or condemned, but receive the greatest gift ever of eternal life, freedom, hope, joy, and love.
Where Do You Find Safe Places to Heal?
What Place Do You Find The Most Healing?
Do You Give Yourself Permission To Heal?
There is freedom in healing. When we heal, we destroy the work of the enemy and are able to live in God’s victory of what He has done for us. Healing is the evidence o
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Have you ever struggled with letting God be enough? I have many times. For some reason I tend to allow my weaknesses and failures keep me hidden from what God is able to do within me. I allow those doubts and fears to creep in and take over the truth that God has for me. But instead of trusting what God has for me, the pain of what I’m lacking hurts and I fill the space with something else as an attempt to make the pain less.
When I’m busy it doesn’t hurt as much.
When I’m over scheduled then I’m preoccupied with the schedule.
When I overextend myself by helping others I can say they ‘need’ me.
When I’m distracted I don’t have to deal with what’s really at hand.
It’s all a lie I’ve believed that if I’m not doing anything then I’m worthless. I’ve had to work really hard over these past two years about what I’m dependent on and where I’m receiving my validation and affirmation, from people or God? Giving myself the gift of honesty has been the best gift ever but has required a lot of disconnecting, detaching, and being still with hard truths that God has revealed in me. Striving to be all this world desires me to be will always leave me weary. Surrendering my desires and need to be in control to God will always set me in a pattern of freedom and restore me beyond measure.
Surrendering to the plans God has for us isn’t always easy.I recently had the pleasure of reading “Letting God Be Enough:Why Striving Keeps You Stuck and How Surrender Sets You Free” by Erica Wiggenhorn.Each chapter ends with a Bible reading plan, bullets points of the chapter, challenging questions to ask yourself and a prayer.She does a wonderful job of taking us on a journey to uncover our fears of inadequacy and showing us when we trust in God’s power what He has for us is always enough.Sounds easy right?(Not so much).
One chapter in the book that hit close to the heart for me was chapter eight, ‘Dealing with Distractions.’Erica starts the chapter with the Bible verse Exodus 11:8, “And he went out from Pharaoh with hot anger.”Moses had a constant struggle in ‘what battle am I fighting?’In Exodus 11, Moses had to go before Pharaoh over and over before each plague and speak on behalf of the Israelites to tell Pharoah, ‘let my people go.’At this point he had already done this nine times.Moses was getting a little frustrated and this last encounter with Pharaoh, he let his anger get the best of him.
Can you relate?
I can relate to Moses allowing his emotions to get the best of him.In becoming emotionally attatched to our situations and outcomes not turning out how we want them.I love how Erica describes how our emotions can really be distractions that veer us away from the actual battle God desires for us and what our anger really means.
I can be like Moses when I see a pattern of injustice, when the outcome isn’t going the way I want, or when I get baited into a debate or argument that isn’t mine to defend in the first place.
During these uncertain times one thing I’ve had to let go of is the fight to be right and embrace the battle to be well.No one ever says I wish I fought my battles with more anger.The only control we have over our situations and circumstances is how we respond to them.Fighting anger with anger never ends well.
There’s an analogy Erica uses in this chapter about a golf ball that came way too close to her face by a reckless golfer who couldn’t wait to tee off until they were safely off the green.The golfer’s actions could have resulted in a serious injury for Erica.The lack of concern for the safety of others struck a chord in her husband in which he defended her by addressing the golfers’ and resulted in them leaving the golf course.How many times have we been in this situation when an injustice occured and we are left with how will we respond?
Of course God doesn’t want us to just stand on the golf course and allow golf balls to fly by our faces over and over, he wants us to practice wisdom and get out of the way.Maybe that’s the point God is trying to tell us, that our anger gets in the way of the battle He’s trying to fight on our behalf.That the real battle is between Him and the enemy.
Moses’ anger would never change Pharoah.God just needed Moses’ surrender, to be His vessel, obedient, and willing.
In this section Erica challenges us with some great questions, when anger arises, we must ask ourselves,
Is this my battle to fight?
What is my role in this battle?
Why am I really angry?
Anger itself is not a sin, it’s what we do with the anger that gets us into trouble.It’s normal to feel angry but not okay to take it out on others or stay in the state of anger.
Are we really trusting in God when we become angry?
Here are the things I can become angry with when I’m not putting my trust in God:
My situation
The outcome
Another person’s choices
Injustices
How people treat me
Maybe our next action step in allowing God to be enough is just getting out of the way?
We can be released from the responsibility of others actions when we trust God with our provision, protection, and outcomes.We can be set free in our surrender and get out of the cycle of striving to handle our situations our way.Thank you Erica for writing this book and leading us through the life of Moses.I needed to hear this message!
Prayer-
God I know I can get stuck in patterns of striving and trying to do things my way.I’m am guilty of not always living in what you are able to do.I know anger is a warning sign letting me know I am not trusting in you.Forgive me for not trusting in you.I pray I will give the battle to be right to you, surrender my struggles, anxieties, and worries to you.I will trust in what you are able to do.I praise you God for who you are and what you are able to do in my life.Thank you God for never giving up on me and always being there for me.In Jesus name, Amen.
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Erica Wiggenhorn is an award-winning author and founder of Every Life Ministries, brining you the truths of Scripture to transform your life. Erica uses her Bible studies to bring the word of God to women across the globe to help encourage them to discover their unique purpose, embrace God’s promises, and live by His power. Erica lives in Phoenix with her husband, two kids and cute adorable dogs. To learn more about Erica and her ministry visit www.ericawiggenhorn.com and on Instagram @ericawiggenhorn.
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Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step. #quote Martin Luther King
Recently I finished a Bible Study Habakkuk by Moody Publishers by Dannah Gresh. At the same time I read a You Version Bible Plan Hope in the Dark by Craig Groeschel which also followed in the book of Habakkuk. I didn’t realize the plan would be about Habakkuk as well, but how amazing when God orchestrates His plans.
The book of Habakkuk is in the Old Testament and only three chapters long, but it is packed full of godliness and wisdom. Each chapter has an important pattern of ask questions to God, WAIT, and Praise. The chapter starts out with Habakkuk crying out to God, asking why all the violence, all the iniquity, injustice (Habakkuk 1:2-5)?
God responds-
This study was so timely for me. I’ve been working in the COVID ICU’s taking care of very sick patients. I wouldn’t wish what I do or see on anyone. All of it is so heavy and hard to watch over and over. I feel like Habakkuk, looking around seeing all the suffering, the injustice, and loss of life at the hands of a violence but in my case a virus. I can just picture him on his knees before God crying out, ‘how,’ ‘why,’ ‘when?’ It’s hard at times not to focus on the fear of it all, am I next? Am I exposing others? How many more will suffer? When will this all end?
It can be difficult to see that God will use all of this pain and devastation for His greater work in us and the nations. It’s hard to believe God will use all this to strengthen our faith when we wait and trust in His timing. Physically, logically my brain can’t comprehend what is going on around me, but by faith I don’t have to have it all figured out and answers to all my questions. The only thing I need to know is God’s outcome is loving and good.
Being honest, I’ve focused a lot on my fears of what surrounds me. It FEELS as though God has left and I’m walking through this battlefield ALONE, just waiting for the explosion to go off. BUT I KNOW, these thoughts come from a place of FEAR. They are NOT God’s TRUTH or what He PROMISES US.
It’s easy to look around at what the world is doing and Fear there will be more spread of the virus. People are at their wits end and just want to be TOGETHER. I believe God doesn’t want us to LIVE in FEAR, but He wants us to also practice Discernment and Wisdom. He wants us be in community to support one another by giving empathy and compassion. God is the creator of universe and science. We will all have a different opinion and comfort levels on what we believe is safe for our health and well-being and that’s okay.
When the world of chaos feels out of control, I have to stay anchored, centered, and grounded in the ONE who IS in CONTROL. The balance of trusting, surrendering, having faith, and standing firm can be a fine line to walk. My HOPE will never be found in the ability to figure it all out. When I CHOOSE to LIVE in FAITH and not by FEAR, there is always HOPE. When I TRUST and ALLOW God to GROW my FAITH way beyond anything I could ever do on my own.
He is the God of HOPE. He is the God of PEACE. You are loved. You matter. You are KNOWN to God. What you are going through Matters and He will use for all for His good.
“His splendor covered the heavens, and the earth was full of his praise. His brightness was like the light; rays flashed from his hand; and there he veiled his power”. Habakkuk 3:3-4
I will ask. I will wait. I will praise. Just like Habakkuk. My faith will carry me and take me further than any amount of fear can. When I am troubled by what surrounds me. When I waiver at the battle before me. I remember the one who has it all in His control.
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I really wanted to title this post The Power of Compassion or the Power of our Words. But in reality not many will google, ‘how can I show more compassion,’ or ‘how do my words effect others?’ When I write these posts I’m at the mercy of google to help people find content they are in desperate need of. I hope this post finds you in your place of need where you are right now.
The answer to this question is compassion. In any type of crisis, compassion is always the best remedy. But what does compassion look like when the world is falling apart?
What We Can Do In Times Of Crisis
You never know how one act of compassion or the impact of your words can effect others. Recently I’ve had to transition from the OR into the ICU to be able to take care COVID patients. I’ve had to see some really heart wrenching things over the past couple of weeks. But I’ve also seen the heart of compassion rise when people are hurting. Nurses have to be some of the most compassionate people I’ve ever met. What they do in times of crisis is just incredible.
Nine years ago when before our son passed away, a nurse thought to record my son’s heartbeat on a recorder and put it into a teddy bear to give to me. Her thoughtfulness and act of compassion has given me a precious gift that I am forever grateful for and has touched me deeply. This past week I witnessed another nurse do the same to give to a little girl as she recorded her loved one’s last heartbeat. Although nothing can replace our loved ones, these acts of compassion in the last moments of life are what we will remember and cherish. These acts of compassion give their loved ones’ lives dignity and show them your life matters, I see you.
Our words can show compassion during these times when others are hurting. Never underestimate the power of empathy in times of crisis. Just telling someone, “I’m so sorry,” or “I am here for you,” are words that will stay with them and let them know you care and see their suffering.
Many have read the parable of the Good Samaritan. After reading the parable many think, ‘I would never walk by a man half naked and dead lying in a ditch.’ But yet two godly men do, a priest and a Levite. The unlikely person, the Samaritan, who was viewed as someone who was lowly, not to be associated with because of wayward ways, was the person who stopped to help. Out of the three men the Samaritan was the only one who came to where he was, in the ditch. The others passed by, for reasons unknown. Maybe they couldn’t be bothered? Or maybe they were in a hurry? Or worst yet, maybe they didn’t care?
But the Samaritan didn’t just come to the hurt man, he bound up his wounds, poured oil and wine on them, brought him to an inn, paid for his room, and came back to check on him. Why would someone do this? Because he had compassion on him. These actions remind me what Jesus has done for us. When we are moved by compassion, we do things for others we normally wouldn’t do. We see things we normally wouldn’t see. When we can see others in their pain and hurt through the lens of compassion, we become God’s love. We become a friend and a neighbor.
When Jesus asked in Luke 10:36, “Which of these three, do you think, proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?” “He said, “The one who showed him mercy.” And Jesus said to him, “You go, and do likewise” (Luke 10:37).
Because of the act of compassion my nurse did for me by taking the time to record my son’s heartbeat and put it into a bear and the compassion I witnessed this week, now others will have a bear with their loved one’s heartbeat in their time of need. This is made possible through the foundation associated with the hospital I work for that will help fund for more bears when you donate to this specific cause.
During these times of unknowing and crisis, it’s so important to let others know, I see you, hear you, you matter, through our acts or words of compassion.
How can we be a good neighbor to those around us who are hurting?
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Have you ever faced a battle in your life and wondered ‘why me?’ or ‘when will this ever end?’ Well today you are in the right place. I’m excited to share with you a book written by Dr. Jon Chasteen, Half the Battle: Healing From Hidden Hurts. A lot of us go through life discrediting the hidden hurts and trauma of our past, stuffing it down to hidden areas where it can’t hurt us anymore. We tell ourselves lies, ‘they don’t matter,’ or ‘I’m fine, that was the past,’ when in reality we keep those hurts hidden away, not healed from them, just put in a different area of our hearts.
Funny thing how the body works. It wants to heal. Although this method of suppression will serve you well for probably many years, it never lasts. God has a way of surfacing those hidden areas we’ve managed to keep ‘safe,’ by nudging us into areas of His eternal healing. It’s our choice whether we want to be healed or keep sitting on our mats like the paralyzed man.
“Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, by this time thee will be an odor, for he has been dead four days.” Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God?” John 11:38-40 ESV.
In biblical times, the dead weren’t necessarily buried but put in caves with large stones to seal them (cave burials were for the wealthy). They did this so there wouldn’t be the horrific odor from the dead that was buried there. The odor was kept hidden by the stone. Dr. Chasteen calls this the ‘stench behind the stone.’ He uses this example as a parallel of our undealt with pain.
What’s so amazing about the story of Lazarus is, everyone had started the mourning process, there was no possibility of a miracle, their loved one was dead, end of story–Jesus entered the scene and changed everything. So why allow Lazarus’ sisters Mary and Martha, and all his loved ones go through all that pain in the first place? To show us what it looks like to invite Jesus into our pain. Dr. Chasteen, uses the story of Lazarus to paint the picture of what we do with our pain. How we try to bury our pain and seal it off in a grave without truly healing from it. He wants us to see what happens when we invite Jesus into our pain, how miracles and healing happen when we do.
Our pain is Jesus’ pain. You’re pain matters to him. “Jesus knows where you’ve hidden your pain” (quote, Chasteen). He wants us to take Him to that exact place where we stopped believing and gave up hope. Healing isn’t healing if it’s done half-way. Jesus knows the way to heal because He is our Healer.
Maybe your pain stems from the pain of rejection. Or from the pain of being abandoned or forgotten. Maybe you’ve been the victim of abuse or racism.
The enemy will always use our pain for his evil plan. He’ll whisper lies it’s better to keep our pain hidden, attach shame to it, not allow Jesus in to help us, and to carry this burden on our own. We can’t change the pain of our pasts. We can’t pretend our past didn’t happen. We can only take steps towards allowing Jesus to have access to all areas of our hearts so He can heal the forgotten hidden areas of our heart. What the enemy uses for evil God will use for good (Genesis 50:20).
I will never forget when God did this for me in my life. I knew there were areas of pain and hurt I was holding onto. I knew God was nudging me to deal with them and allow Him to lead Him to the root. I kept saying, ‘no,’ until one day I couldn’t say, ‘no,’ anymore. He had brought me to the very place our son died in the hospital, when our daughter had broken the tip of her finger. God asked me in this moment, ‘Do you want to heal?’ I finally said, ‘yes.’ He then nudged me to walk into the place that caused so much of my pain, the room where our son died. The moment I stepped into the room, God gave me an overwhelming sense of peace, letting me know, you don’t have to hold onto your pain anymore, I have your son, I’m taking care of Him, you will see him again one day.
The key to healing is our willingness to heal.
Healing is hard but so worth it. Half the battle is being willing. Our willingness allows for places of honesty and vulnerability places where Jesus will do His amazing work in us, when we allow Him. We don’t always have to know how only trust that God knows a better way. We will never find healing and restoration in shame and pride. Everlasting peace and freedom will only happen when we partner with Jesus and let Him in, not when we try to carry our burdens on our own. We were created and made to have a holy dependence in God not a holy independence (kind of never works out when we do).
God doesn’t always provide the front door approach to our pain, because He knows many of us won’t walk through it! Sometimes He uses the back door approach, allows us to go through the battles, pain, and struggles so we can draw closer to Him and invite Him in. If you struggle with allowing God to have your pain, Half the Battle will help lead you to those place where hidden hurts reside. Dr. Chasteen will help you roll the stone away so you can deal with those hidden hurts that don’t allow one to heal.
Do you invite Jesus into your hidden hurts?
Where do you keep hidden hurts?
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Are you feeling un-motivated? Apathetic? Loneliness is huge right now. It’s an ever expanding abyss getting bigger and bigger as each day goes on. We may all be experiencing pandemic fatigue. It’s a real thing and you are not alone. With the winter season approaching, the days will become shorter and darkness will increase. Sickness will surge as flu season and our pandemic numbers rise to alarming numbers. Seclusion and isolation are utilized to protect us physically but are harming us mentally and emotionally. Why? Because we were never created to be ALONE we were made to be TOGETHER.
In the Bible when God created Adam, his plan was never meant for him to be alone.
“Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone. ” I will make him a helper fit for him” Genesis 2:18
Adam had all the livestock he could ever want, but there was not a suitable companion for him until God made Eve. “So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon man (the first anesthestic 😂), and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was take out of Man”. (Genesis 2:20-23).
In the book “Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World,” by Dr. Vivek Murthy (19th Surgeon General of the United States), he talks about studies that show the power of healing in human connection and community. “When people feel they belong to one another, their lives are stronger, richer, and more joyful.” People who have strong family structures, are apart of supportive groups or communities do better as opposed to those who are alone. With our ever increasing need to physically isolate to stay safe from what’s to come, our need for connection is growing stronger than ever.
How to Stay Connected In A World Filled With Loneliness
With all the social distancing and quarantines going on, more and more people are feeling apathetic and un-motivated. It’s easy to slip into patterns of laziness and not wanting to engage with others because this is becoming the norm. We were created to do life together not be isolated. Even though there are nationwide mandates to socially isolate and distance, we can still be creative in how we gather together. Life still happens even amidst a pandemic. People still need surgery, they still get cancer, accidents still happen. You can’t stop babies from being born, people finishing their education, or weddings from happening. Life continues on despite our world falling apart.
We need to stay connected. We were made for connection.
So how do we stay connected when the world is telling us to stay apart?
Be real with our emotional and mental state. The best thing we can do right now is to be honest with our emotional state. Be real with how this pandemic is affecting your emotional and mental well being. Talk about it with someone you trust. Whether it be a friend or a counselor, connecting with someone who feels the same way is so powerful. Allowing someone to come alongside you will let you know I see you, I hear you, your problems are known and validated. Your anxieties and fears will be met in your loneliness when you bring them out of the darkness into the light.
“Let light shine out of darkness,” 2 Corinthians 4:6
Acknowledge the struggle. There is power in acknowledging the struggle. There is healing when we can recognize, we aren’t super heroes, we’re human. We won’t be able to always handle the burdens that this pandemic brings, the isolation, the interrupted routines in our schedules, schools, lack of community, connection, the emotional break-downs, financial hardship, the list goes on.
Dr. Vivek Murthy speaks about how the majority of our fears, anxieties, and chronic illnesses are rooted in loneliness. Loneliness was an epidemic before this pandemic even started (the pandemic just unearthed what was already there). The underlying dark common thread of loneliness gives rise to the more overt issues we see on the surface such as addictions, depression, anger, and anxiety which are only the symptoms we see not the root of our issues. These struggles seem to stay in a a cycle of despair because these symptoms and behaviors are believed to be shameful (Murthy, xv).
Find where you belong, join a group. We need each other right now. Finding where we belong is imperative to our mental and emotional states. Find a mentor, join an online community where you can zoom face to face, get outside and do something active to unlock your dopamine supply and connect with others. We may not always be able to meet face to face but we need to be creative in staying connected with one another. We are having to recreate how we meet, how we exercise, how we receive our education, new ways to work from home, how we dine, how we engage in our everyday lives. And it’s tiremsome. It is draining us, making us all weary.
Something changes when we have to wear masks, we lose the ability to see each other’s smiles. Mirror neurons are a real thing, when a person smiles it stimulates another person to smile. We aren’t able to shake hands, hug others the way we used to and it becomes isolating. We are turning off our cameras when we’re in meetings or school so others can’t see we’re really in our pajamas or didn’t put our make-up on and don’t want others to see the real us.
Staying healthy and connected are vital to our emotional and mental health right now. Staying motivated and disciplined to be intentional about the well-being of our health is necessary for our future. This time of isolation does not give us an excuse to stay hidden from our struggles but a perfect time to bring them into the light and be real with them.
To learn more how we are made for connection to do this life together read the book Together by Dr. Vivek Murthy. I learned so much how we are not alone in our loneliness and ways to build community and connect with one another on a deeper level.
Are you feeling un-motivated and apathetic or lonely?
How are you preserving your emotional and mental health right now?
How are you staying connected in a world filled with loneliness right now?
Need a Break? Do you feel like this world is getting more chaotic and you just want some peace and rest?
I am so honored to be one of the 50+ Women Speakers at the 2020 Christian Women’s Self-Care Conference. There will be live workshops filled with lots of much needed goodness! And get this, it’s FREE!!!!!! (But for a limited time only). Take advantage of watching this conference in the comfort of your own home. Take time for yourself. Learn what areas of your life could use a little healing and attention. I am excited about my workshop: You are Known: Loving Yourself Well which will be on day three and I address the struggles of co-dependency.
To register either Click Here or on the image. To view, a complete list of speakers and workshops click on the link at the bottom of the page near the registration button. Make sure to join me over the next on Facebook and Instagram. I will be doing LIVE chats and giveaways! Let’s get the conversation started!
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Hello! It’s been a while. I’ve been taking a much needed break this year from blogging to concentrate on a deficient area of my life, self-care. A moment of honesty–there were areas of my life I didn’t realize needed healing and attention. I kept hitting walls that wouldn’t allow me to move forward or I would build walls to protect me from any hurts in my life. There would be times I was losing a grip on keeping my sanity and serenity in a healthy place. I had to ask the question, Why did this keep happening?
Well, nothing changes when nothing changes. I had to be real with the adversity in my life. I couldn’t ignore emotional scars from my past or traumas that trickled into the hidden corners of my relationships in my life. Whenever a trigger or hardship evolved these past hurts hiding in the corners came out like a raging river. Over these past months and years, I’ve been doing a lot of reading and research on how adversity changes the emotional landscapes of how we cope and heal. I’ve had to look within myself and do some self-discovery of why am I the way I am?
Growing up a horrible lie was born into my life, I wasn’t wanted. Nothing my parents did make me feel this way, but it’s the message I received because of my circumstances. My parents were very young when my sister and I were born, divorced by the time we were two, we lived with my grandparents for a couple of years until my father remarried and we moved back in with him in our new family and visited our mother on the weekends. We didn’t talk about our problems or address them much because no one knew how. My parents are a byproduct of my grandparents who grew up in the great depression where you don’t complain and you just kept going. Problems or mistakes were to be hidden so no one knew our flaws. No one talked about the fact there was mental illness and struggles with alcohol that affected our family.
“Am I a God at hand, delcares the Lord, and not a God far away? Can a man hide himself in secret places so that I cannot see him? declares the Lord. Do I not fill heaven and earth? declares the Lord”. Jeremiah 23:23-24.
No wonder why it’s so hard to heal!?!?! No one likes to talk about their flaws and problems. But it’s such a necessary step in accepting how God made us and how He will use our circumstances for good. I became really good at hiding from what was hidden beneath the surface for so many years. I was a people pleaser. Helping others and pleasing people became my hiding place. If I could please others and make sure their needs were met, I didn’t have any problems. If I could fix, solve, save, or rescue others from their problems then I was good. The problem with this method of dealing with problems was I wasn’t dealing with my own problems. I wasn’t depending on God to mend my hurts, I was co-dependent on others to mend me. This method will never serve anyone well in the end, because it bypasses Jesus and doesn’t allow Him to be the Mender and Healer.
It wasn’t until I started counseling, I discovered I was a co-dependent. I had developed unhealthy coping mechanisms to get my needs filled, to heal the wound I wasn’t wanted, which gave birth to other lies I was inadequate, not good enough. I was a mess. I had to unravel years of dysfunctional unhealthy behavior. It has been very hard to peel back those layers, but so worth it and necessary in my healing process. If I wasn’t willing to go beneath the surface and ask the question of why I do what I do, did things start to change for me? I had to identify I wasn’t really putting my trust in God when I was going ahead of Him trying to heal myself through others. I had to acknowledge there was a difference between just treating symptoms to get by or really do the work to heal.
“Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved, for you are my praise” Jeremiah 17:14
What you do isn’t who you are. The effects adversity has on our lives is real. Even if you don’t have a life born into adversity there still are stressors and hardships that make life difficult. Being real with who you are in how God made you and learning how to maneuver through the adversity in your life is crucial. I want to introduce to you the ACE score. It stands for Adversity Childhood Experience. This score is on a 10 point scale, 10 being the most and 0 being the least. The higher your ACE score before the age of 18 determines based on statistics whether you are more prone to criminal activity, alcoholism, mental illness, and other chronic diseases. Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, a pediatrician, and California Surgeon General has dedicated her life work to adversity and making it apart of integrative health, looking at the person as a whole, getting to the root of underlying issues, not just treating symptoms.
My ACE score by the time I was seven years old was a six. My score put me into a very high-risk category or being susceptible to a whole slew of addictions and chronic illnesses. Dr. Burke explains the neuroscience behind our stress, adversity, and why we do what we do. She also explains why it’s so important to lower our ACE scores so we can leave behind a healthy legacy for the next generation. I encourage you to take the ACE quiz to see what you score. To take the quiz click here.
You are loved, my friend. You are worth it! You are an overcomer in Christ. Your circumstances and adversity don’t define you, God does. You are known in his love. We don’t have to hide from who we are in Christ, praise God for that!
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Need a Break? Do you feel like this world is getting more chaotic and you just want some peace and rest?
I am so honored to be one of the 50+ Women Speakers at the 2020 Christian Women’s Self-Care Conference. There will be live workshops filled with lots of much needed goodness! And get this, it’s FREE!!!!!! (But for a limited time only). Take advantage of watching this conference in the comfort of your own home. Take time for yourself. Learn what areas of your life could use a little healing and attention. I am excited about my workshop: You are Known: Loving Yourself Well which will be on day three and I address the struggles of co-dependency.
To register either Click Here or on the image. To view, a complete list of speakers and workshops click on the link at the bottom of the page near the registration button. Make sure to join me over the next 12 days on Facebook and Instagram. I will be doing LIVE chats and giveaways! Let’s get the conversation started!
What area of your life do you need the most self-care?
I am so excited to see what God will do in your life through this conference. Please share in the comments and start a conversation. You are loved, my friend!
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Have you ever been behind the scenes to a concert or TV/movie set? Going behind the scenes really gives a different perspective of what actually goes into producing a live performance or show. You get so much more in-depth information and details about the performance going behind the scenes.
Prophecies in the Bible do the same thing–they give us a behind the scene glimpse of what is to come. The Christmas story is the fulfillment of many prophecies foretelling the birth of our Savior.
In Micah, we learn Jesus would be born in the town of Bethlehem.
In Isaiah, we learn Jesus would be born a king of the line of David and that a child would be born of a virgin.
One of my favorite prophecies of the Christmas story is in Psalms, when we learn Kings would bring him gifts and fall down before him.
Psalm 72:10-11 “The kings of Tarshish and of distant shores will bring tribute to him; the kings of Sheba and Seba will present him gifts. All kings will bow down to him and all nations will serve him.”
Over 2,000 years ago there was a lot going on behind the scenes of The Christmas Story. Baby Jesus had already been born in Bethlehem and the Magi had already set out on their journey following the star that had come from the east (Matthew 2:1-2).
Why do Wise Men Seek Jesus?
The Magi were a group of wise men probably from the area of Persia, who were some of the most intelligent men that existed during their time. They studied astrology, maps, and stars things most of us wouldn’t pay attention to.
Have you ever wondered how did the Magi a group of Gentile men, end up in Jerusalem in search of the king of the Jews?
Matthew 2:1-1 “After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews?” We saw his star in the east and have come to worship him”
According to the prophecy in Psalms, the kings were to come out of Tarshish, a land very far from Jerusalem. They merely had one single star from the east as their beacon to guide them to the location of Jesus.
It makes me wonder, how did the Magi end up in Jerusalem?
Did they have copies of Old Testament Manuscripts and closely follow the prophecies that a star shall come out of Jacob and a scepter shall rise out of Israel (Num. 24:17)?
Or did they have a revelation from God Himself?
It amazes me the far distance these non-Jewish men traveled, to worship the newborn King of the Jews and how they recognized the star as the announcement of Jesus’s birth.
The Magi’s question, “Where is the one who has been born King of the Jews?” caused the priests and Jewish scholars to provide the answer they were looking for. They referred to the prophecy in Micah, that the Christ was to be born in Bethlehem.
Matthew 2:9-10 “….After they went on their way, the star they had seen in the east went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star they were overjoyed.”
This star from the east was quite the miracle, now leading them to the actual house where Jesus lived! Contrary to what modern day nativity scenes display, the Magi did not visit baby Jesus in the manger the night he was born. Because of the distance of their travels, they did not arrive until months later.
Matthew 2:11 “On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshipped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold and of incense and of myrrh.”
In Matthew, we see the prophecy in Psalms being fulfilled–kings will present him gifts, bow down to him and all nations will serve him.
The Magi went far lengths to not just offer these gifts to Jesus, but to open them in His presence. These gifts were worthy of a king depicting the picture of what one day will be given to the Messiah. The Magi give us a wonderful example of what distance are we willing to go to worship and give God gifts the way He has given us.
Sometimes I think our intelligence can get in the way of facing our issues honestly. We can rationalize and think we’re smarter and know best, preventing us from seeing what’s really in front of us. Not the Magi. They knew. They recognized the miracle of the new king.
What distance would you go to receive God’s gifts?
Has intelligence or wisdom ever gotten in the way of seeking Jesus?
Even wise men need Jesus. I hope you enjoyed behind the scenes of The Christmas Story! May you open the abundant gift God has given you this Christmas, the gift of Jesus! Have a very Merry and Blessed Christmas!
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Barbieri, L. A., Jr. (1985). Matthew. In J. F. Walvoord & R. B. Zuck (Eds.), The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures (Vol. 2, p. 22). Wheaton, IL: Victor Books.
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Have you ever struggled with being honest with yourself? And wondered why is it so hard for me to be vulnerable and real? Chances are you are not alone. Many of us struggle with showing the world our real selves (me included) for fear of being criticized or judged. For fear of not being liked or even outcasted from circles of friends.
If you work in any kind of team setting chances are you’ve already taken a Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, or HSP personality test to determine where you fall in the spectrum of being a team player or coachable. How we perceive and receive information is vital in how we respond and grow.
Knowing who we are helps us to be the truest version of ourselves and not try to be something we’re not. Most recently I’ve taken the Myer-Briggs test and discovered I’m an ENFJ which means I’m an extrovert, I’m intuitive, I process things through feelings and I have good judgement.
I actually scored very low on the extrovert making me closer to an introvert than I realized. I get recharged by retreating to a quiet place by myself instead of throwing myself into a big crowd of people.
On the Enneagram I’m a 1 with a 2 wing. And on the Highly Sensitive Person test I scored a 13, meaning a process information at a higher degree of emotion than others.
To not know who you really are, is a lonely place to be. Chances are if there is a struggle in your life, maybe your struggle isn’t about what you’re really struggling with but a deeper conflict of denying your own self in how God made you.
Why Do We Struggle With Being Authentic?
According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the definition of authentic is: true to one’s own personality, spirit, or character.
Ask yourself these questions.
Do you allow others to see your real self? Do you allow them to see not just the good parts about you, but the broken pieces, flaws and everything in between?
Are you a ‘doer’? Meaning do you play the role of a ‘fixer’ and try to ‘do’ compassion for others by doing things for them, or can you just ‘be’ compassion for a friend?
Are you a chameleon and try to blend in a crowd (depending who’s there) or do you let your real personality come through no matter what situation you’re in?
Do you allow anyone to see your emotions when you’re happy, sad, frustrated or annoyed? Or do you only share emotions with certain people you consider safe?
There are no right or wrong answers to these questions. They are merely to probe a deeper response to ‘why’ do we do what we do?
Sadly I think many of us adapt our personalities depending on our situations, to conform to the worldly ‘normal’ of what’s acceptable. We deny who we are at the cost of fitting in.
We struggle with being authentic because……….
We don’t give ourselves the liberty to be honest and real. When are busy being busy, we’re not able to sit and peel back the layers of what really lies beneath. When we do we’ll be surprised to find there is a lot of good stuff under all those layers! There is nothing under those layers God can’t mend!
We become human ‘doers’ instead human ‘beings.’ When we ‘do’ love instead of ‘being’ love, we become the rescuers and Saviors, two roles that are meant for Jesus, not us. When we become love, we become a vessel for God’s love showing others the love that could only come from Jesus.
We hide our brokenness, keep our flaws hidden. When we protect our flaws from being seen and not allow them to be brought into the light, we deny the essence of who we are, broken. I’m not saying stand on a stage with a megaphone and shout to the world all of of your ugly secrets. What I am saying is exercise wisdom by having people of accountability in your life that can help be a voice of wisdom. Someone you can share your junk with who can pray for you and keep you straight.
We can never be authentic or live in God’s original design in our lives when we aren’t able to be honest with ourselves.
Do you know your TRUE self?
Do you feel like you have the FREEDOM to live how God created you? Why or Why not?
Do you struggle with being authentic?
How can you be more authentic today?
If you struggle with being who you are, try taking a personality test. Try writing a letter to yourself, telling yourself it’s okay to be you. Write down your personality traits. Which ones do you allow others to see? Which ones do you hide and ask why do you hide these traits?
Or find an accountability partner, a wise mentor, or a life coach to help in your journey in getting back to your TRUE self. Start journaling and seeking God in prayer of what He desires for you.
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will.” Romans 12:12
Praise God, when we embrace God’s purpose for us, we will always be able to live in our most authentic selves.
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